Sex, Gender, Sexuality, Intimacy, Erectile, Orgasmic & Sexual Functioning Counselling Psychotherapy
Sexuality, Gender, Sexual and non Sex Intimacy are core issues and qualities that give vitality, energy, purpose and meaning to our everyday experiences of life.
Early inappropriate sexual experience are very damaging and can lead to life long sexual anxiety and inhibition. This can also lead to confusion of ones sexual orientation
Do you feel that exploring or talking about sexual orientation, functioning and sex related challenges would be difficult, anxiety provoking, exposing or embarrassing?
Would you like to feel really confident, safe and secure sexually as a man or a woman, whether gay or heterosexual?
Counselling Psychotherapy can assist and support you to explore, cope with and overcome physical, psychological and emotional issues or difficulties with sex and sexuality. Exploring the impact of stress, anxiety, fear, abuse and depression on your sexual functioning can be more than beneficial. Sex Counselling Psychotherapy will enable you to build the awareness of the impact these issues may have, so as to make meaningful choices to living a more satisfying and enjoyable life.
You may feel that this might reveal your sense of nakedness and vulnerability? Both men and women still find it extremely difficult if not virtually impossible to speak about their sexual problems.
Everybody, at some stage in their life may experience difficulties in relation to Sex, Sexual functioning and performance.
Doubt, worry, fear, apprehension, depression, stress and anxiety all add to the sense of nakedness and vulnerability, which can result in a deeper sense of shame and or failure.
Building trust, care seeking & care giving, confidentiality and sensitivity are essential components of Sex Counselling Psychotherapy.
You may be searching for help and are anxious and fearful of taking the next step.
What is Counselling Psychotherapy? Counselling 4 U offers a warm, empathetic, safe, confidential and professional environment, where you can be heard and understood, and where you can explore and understand what is troubling for you.
A very large number of people experience sexual difficulties at some stage in their life. Sexual difficulties can be represented by erectile difficulties, lack of sex drive, desire, interest or Libido, premature ejaculation, inability to orgasm in both male and female, impotence, etc.
Sex Counselling provides therapeutic support which can help to improve or solve sexual concerns. The counselling or psychotherapy relationship is about getting a deeper understanding and acceptance of your-self.
Our private self which holds all the excluded and hidden desires and impulses carries a deep wound for both men and women around our sexuality. Our fears, taboo’s hidden desires are cloaked in shame, guilt and repression.
Beginning to explore ones sexuality can feel deeply exposing, revealing a vulnerable naked insecure self. Embarrassment is understandable but is neither necessary nor helpful. Part of growing up involves addressing sexual difficulties like an adult. Sex therapy counselling can help men and women, either alone or with a partner, who are experiencing sexual problems.
Your therapists is used to talking about clients sexual lives and are not at all embarrassed. The therapist is there to help the woman or man and their partner gain understanding of some of the relationship dynamics and background issues that may be influencing the problem. The therapist can also support you with information about human sexuality and sexual functioning.
Sex related difficulties or issues can turn out to be odd blessings. When things finally become insurmountable and intolerable, some people seek a therapist who can help them. The initial embarrassment about seeing a therapist is an obstacle that takes courage to overcome.
If you are experiencing sex and sexuality difficulties or behaviours which are having a negative impact on the quality of your life, or that of your partner then it is wise to seek the assistance of counselling. There are no issue too big or too small.
Counselling4U offers Counselling Psychotherapy for Anxiety, Sex & Pornography Addiction, Men’s Issues and much more.